Fathers: the new slaves

Fathers are victims of discrimination. Fathers can become slaves to a system that dictates them into a life that they do not want; a life of slavery where they are forced away from their children toward a life of endless labor and drudgery.
Often false allegations by a vindictive wife under a corrupt government and court system force a loving man into slavery often resulting in poverty and complete alienation from his children. All odds are against you if you are targeted by such a person. Getting psychological help for that person is almost impossible; unless that person does something really bad, criminal, or endangers the children you remain the target of suspicion and scrutiny for years providing lawyers and court workers with enormous amounts of money. It is their livelihood and they need money to live and will use your case for their best interest, to make a living. Their best interest, yes, and they will throw around the cliche “in the best interest of the children” making you feel like a heal of a shoe. Yes, you will feel like a heal; you will be trampled on by everyone that has the power to otherwise help, but they don’t. They only cause you pain and torture as they build their empire and destroy your relationship with your family and most importantly your children.

Children must perceive mothers and fathers as equal parents, not Primary and Secondary parents

Children must perceive mothers and fathers as equal parents, who contribute equally to raising them, supporting them, and loving them. When a child sees mother buying things for them all the time they don’t understand that dad is out working to earn that money, so they perceive their mother to be the one who buys their needs and their toys, and perceive her as the loving, supportive parent who becomes perceived to be the primary parent while father is secondary and only ‘visits’ once in a while. Fathers, who are victims of discrimination and parental alienation, know how cruel the system is when their child tells them that they don’t buy things for them like their mother does. Let’s stop discrimination of fathers. Learn more at www.adaf.ca .